Join Me...

“You are by far the most positive and happy person I have ever met!!” This was from an e-mail that I received the other day at work and I replied, “That is the best compliment that I’ve received all day.”

I’m in a new environment in my workplace and more often than not, I hear people telling me how positive I am.  I’ve stressed over and over and over again that Happiness is a Choice!  It’s not something that is forced upon us.  

I have the same feelings that everyone else feels, I have some of the same thoughts that others have; I have my good and bad days, ups and downs.  However, I choose not to stay there.  I force myself to THINK UP; I force myself to FEEL UP; I force myself to CHEER UP! 

You and I may not be able to control the thoughts that come to our minds, but we can CHOOSE whether we dwell on them.  I don’t like how it feels when I’m sad; I don’t like how I feel when I’m mad; I don’t like how I feel when I’m depressed and distraught, so I don’t allow myself to remain in that state. 

Participate!  Join me in this awesome feeling.  The choice is really yours!  When I find myself getting down, I take a walk and pray or meditate on a scripture.  Look for the good in every situation.  Assume the best until proven otherwise. I refuse to be a person walking around expecting the worst in the situation. 

I thank God for giving me the ability to choose between death and life. I choose life by choosing to be happy because I’m letting go of the stress, strain and anxiety which can lead to an early death, brought on by sickness and disease.  Happiness is a choice and I invite you to join me!

“The demands of everyday life can be wearing for a person. We need a shot in the arm--an injection of JOY! Joy that refuses to stay quarantined. Joy that runs rampant through the daily-ness of existence. Like engaging smiles and hearty laughter, joy is contagious. We catch it from one another.”

-Unknown

Any Excuse...

Any excuse is a good excuse when you don’t want to do better.

I don’t have enough money; I don’t have enough education; I don’t have enough time; I’m too fat; I’m too skinny; I’m too dark; I’m too light; I’m not gifted, etc.  The list goes on and on and I’m sure you can add more reasons to the list that you’ve heard.  I read a quote by Anno Sensei that said, “Everyone on this planet is given the same 24 hours in the day. The question is: what do you choose to do with yours?”

We all can make excuses for why we aren’t taking action, but no one wants to hear them.  The thing is this, sometimes you’ve got to look beyond the now to see the future and make the necessary steps to get there.   That might mean making sacrifices, it could mean working a job that you are too fond of until the one you want comes open.  That can be argued many ways…  Yes, the Lord will give you the desires of your heart, but the Bible also says that faith without works is dead and that a man who doesn’t work, doesn’t eat.  Enough with the excuses – get up and take control of your situation.  I honestly believe that if you get busy and show God that you mean business, that He will open the right doors.  Crying, whining and complaining about the situation does not make God move any faster.

Now please exercise wisdom when it comes to this.  Rick Warren said, “You don’t have time for everything. No one does. You have to make time for what really counts. It’s not a matter of time; it’s a matter of priorities and values.”  My husband and I went into a business the other day and everyone that worked there were of the same culture and nationality.  This spurred conversation as to how there are some ethnic groups that have no problems coming together to achieve success and to help each other make it in life.  These ethnic groups have been oppressed, criticized and rejected like many others; however, they understand the power or togetherness and not making excuses.

The next time you open your mouth to make an excuse for why something is the way it is, challenge yourself to not say it and force yourself to say something positive instead.  Change your perspective of the situation and instead of playing the victim, be the victor!  Stop looking at your life through the same lenses and put on some new shades.  Stop making life harder than it has to be.

No excuses – just results!