About a year or more ago, I would say, "it is what it is and if they like it, I love it." I don't want someone scripting my screenplay, so it's not right for me to do it to them. My mind also went back to a message that my Pastor preached about a week ago called "Stay in Your Lane." God didn't call you to live for or think for someone else. To each his own. Just because they don't do it the way you would does not make their way wrong.
I Thessalonians 4:11 "And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands..."