Sunday, December 28, 2014

But If Not...

As I sat this morning listening to Pastor John Hagee, he said something that really struck a place in me and that was, "Disappointment should not lead you to disbelief!"

Just because God does not do what you want Him to do, does not mean that He cannot do it.   Therefore, we must begin to say, "But if not..."  Lord I know that you can do this, but if not - I still trust you.  


Isaiah 55:8-9 (NLT)... “My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.  For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.

God is not bound to our limiting thoughts and He will accomplish His will as He sees fit.  

Remember, if God does not do something, it doesn't mean that He cannot - it means He has other plans.  

Jeremiah 29:11-13 (NLT)... For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.

Disappointment should not lead you to disbelief!

Rejection is direction!

God's delays are not necessarily God's denials!

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Let Go and Let God...

I've learned that some of the best things in life are not planned.  

That it only takes you stepping outside of you to get the blessing that was about to pass you by.  

That when you trust God for real and not just in words, He floods you with goodness beyond your greatest fantasy.  

That when you obey, even when it hurts, the greatness that follows erases the memories of the pain.  

I've learned that when we try to hold too tightly to the lives that are not ours, we miss the awesome plans that are His, and in return we could be left with misery.

So today, I leave this thought with you... LET GO AND LET GOD!

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Be Thankful Always...

There is always something for which you can be thankful!

Years ago, I heard the story of an Englishman by the name of Matthew Henry. One day Matthew Henry was riding his horse through the woods. He was on his way to a church meeting where he was going to be the guest speaker. Suddenly, a masked bandit ran out of the woods with a gun in his hand and demanded that Matthew Henry get off of his horse. Mr. Henry obeyed the robber, as he knew this was a dangerous situation.  His mind took him to the thought that we are supposed to give thanks in everything that happens to us. He asked God how he was supposed to be thankful for being robbed! As he continued on his way, the answer came to him.

“First,” he said, “I am thankful I have never been robbed before.

Second, I am thankful he took my money and not my life.

Third, I am thankful he did not take more; he could have taken my horse and my clothes as well.

Next, I am thankful that what I had stolen from me really did not amount to very much. Then I am grateful that what I lost, in time, could be replaced.

But, finally, and most importantly, I am thankful that I was the one robbed and not the robber!”

I Thessalonians 5:18 (NLT)…. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.

http://www.personality-insights.com/blog/2008/11/24/there-is-always-something-for-which-you-can-be-thankful/

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Thought For The Day...

"I think one of the most wonderful parts of heaven will be all the time we get to spend with the people we loved on earth, but didn't get enough time with."
- Allison Robbins

Are you going to heaven?

Saturday, October 18, 2014

I'm Losing Control...

As I enter into this next phase of my life, I'm facing the realization that I'm losing control - and it's a little scary!  Today as we drove out of town, I relinquished my driving privileges and as a method of calming my nerves about it, I brought along a magazine to read.  Lol!  It didn't help as much as I anticipated.   I constantly found myself looking and checking the mirrors or secretly glancing over at the speedometer.  Since I wasn't in the driver's seat, I would at least attempt to control the radio or the temperature in the car.  

What I found was what should have been a nice, relaxing 2 hour ride, turned into an intense unnecessary over alerted, non-enjoyable experience!

WHY?! The answer was simple - I was fighting the fact that I wasn't in control; I wasn't in the driver's seat.    My mind began to wonder and I landed on the thought that if I can't lose control of a 2 hour car ride and be okay with not being the driver, then what else am I going to fight?  Hhmmm....

Losing control is not always a bad thing.  Then I glanced in the back seat and noticed that my mom (who is terrified of riding in cars), was enjoying a nice nap.  I was instantaneously envious.  After a few moments, I chuckled to myself and realized that this car ride could be related to my encounters with God.  He's a much more skilled driver than I am and He knows exactly what's ahead and around the next curve, but because I can't control the speed and change lanes as I would like - I find myself constantly over alerted and uncomfortable.   

It's okay to lose control to the one who has the ultimate control.  So today as I prepare myself to relax on the drive home, I also willingly give control back to God and take a restful nap.  

Friday, September 26, 2014

Dear God...

Dear God, 

Enlighten what's dark in me... 
Strengthen what's weak in me... 
Mend what's broken in me... 
Bind what's bruised in me... 
Heal what's sick in me... 
And lastly... Revive whatever peace and love has died in me... 

 Reply AMEN if this is your prayer!
-Unknown

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Be Still...

"There can be clarity in chaos, if you be still long enough."
-SoSerene


Psalms 46:10..."Be still and know that I am God..."  Yet another translation interprets this scripture as "Stop fighting", He says, " and know that I am God."

Each time that I was at a pivotal point in my life, my initial instinct was "flight" when the pressure was turned up.  Each time, some kind of way Psalms 46 found its way before my eyes.  

"But Lord, I'm tired of this phase in my life and I don't understand why you keep telling me to be still."  

"Where am I going and how long will it be before I arrive at this predetermined destination?"  

"God I'm growing weary and I don't know how much fight I have left in me..."  "Stop fighting", He says, " and know that I am God."

If you are anything like me, you are a bit of a control freak and you tend to plan most things.  However, when something doesn't go according to that plan, you divert to plans B, C and D.   But what happens when none of them work and you feel helpless and hopeless because you are no longer in control?  It is usually at that moment where God steps into the driver's seat and begins to navigate. Could it be that if you are still experiencing a great deal of chaos that you are still fighting?  I know that I was!

"There can be clarity in chaos, if you be still long enough."

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

CEO of My Life...

I am the CEO of my life and the Trinity is my Board of Directors. 

As the CEO of my life, it is my responsibility to protect this investment and to accomplish the objectives set forth by my Board of Directors.  I do this by setting a vision, developing a strategy and creating a culture of love, joy, peace and forgiveness.  I am a decision maker, leader, manager and executor.  I meet with my Board of Directors on a daily basis, as they are always available to provide encouragement, wisdom, guidance and direction.  My Board of Directors have the keen ability to sense when I may be making a risky investment into a person, place or thing and they alert me. 
John 10:27…”My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.”
I have a Senior Leadership team as well, and they are my closest friends and confidants.  It is their responsibility to assist me in executing the set forth objectives.  We support each other.  I must ensure that my Senior Leadership team is on board with the vision and strategy and culture or we will not achieve the level of success sought after.
I Corinthians 15:33…”Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character.”
In order to satisfy the objectives, I must be able to produce an ROI (return on investment).
John 3:16…”For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
If there is anything or anyone threatening this investment, which would negate my ability to implement and execute the strategies and objectives, I must terminate that relationship and sometimes that hurts.
I Samuel 15:22…”To obey is better than sacrifice….”
As the CEO of your life, are you making the right decisions and taking the appropriate steps to protect your investment?

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Adjustments For Happiness...

What adjustments you are willing to make to be happy?

Don't do drama ... 
Stay out of other people's business .. 
Can't hang with everyone ... 
Give up a job that's asking you to compromise your moral standards... 
You don't have to be popular to be happy!

Make a decision to be happy and stop allowing others to drag you around.   
What is righteousness, peace and joy worth to you?

Live deeper than I want, I think, I feel.

You don't need everyone's approval to function in life.  

It's hard to give it up now, but you'll be happy later.  

God wants us all to have a good life, so what are you willing to give up? 
Our morals and standards don't evolve because God doesn't evolve!
 Make the right choices so that you can live without regrets.  
 - Notes from a sermon by Joyce Meyer

Friday, July 25, 2014

Turning Point...

There comes a time in life where you reach a turning point. You realize that the path you're walking - you've been on it long enough.  You may have become stagnant and complacent; wanting more and deserving more, but stuck in fear and doubt. You know what you're capable of, but you just can't seem to build up enough momentum to get your feet off the ground.

Well today might be the turning point in your life.  Today might be the day when you face yourself and declare that enough is enough.  Today might be the day when you make a drastic change for your better tomorrow.

Only you know when you've reached that place in life and no matter how much you look to others to push you - this is a move that you have to make on your own.  That turning point could be related to your health, your job, a relationship or whatever, but I challenge you to take an active interest in the betterment of your future!  Pray to God for direction and then obey!


James 2:14...What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? 

Deuteronomy 2:3...Ye have compassed this mountain long enough: turn you northward.


"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
- Albert Einstein 


"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
- Albert Einstein 

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Make God Your Priority...

Has your relationship with God become convenient? Has it become too familiar?  Have you become accustomed to what you are giving to Him and in return what He is giving to you?  

Convenientfitting in well with a person's needs, activities, and plans.
Familiar - commonly or generally known.
Matthew 6:33 says, "But seek (aim or strive for) ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."
In a conversation with a co-worker today, I intently listened to her for almost an hour discuss her accomplishments in life and how she is striving to attain success on a greater level by working many laborious hours, in an attempt to gain recognition for promotion.  However, throughout that discourse I was reminded of how we strive in so many other areas of our lives, but neglect to put forth that same time and energy in our relationship with God.  We will run ourselves ragged for a job and for family, but then are too "tired" to read our bibles, pray or even go to church.  I know that I've been found guilty.  

As she wrapped up her conversation, the above referenced scripture came to mind to share with her and in turn it blessed me.  If we would go after God the way we go after everything else that we desire, He said in His word that all the other stuff that we desire would be added unto us.  

Make God your priority! 

Friday, June 6, 2014

Learn to Hush...

I Corinthians 6:12 (NIV) …“I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything.

Just because something may be the right thing to say, doesn’t mean that it’s necessary to say it.  We need to pray for the wisdom of timing on when to release words from our mouths.  I think that a lot of conflict and tension could be avoided if we understood the timing of silence coupled with prayer.

Don’t become a slave of talking too much!

Saturday, May 31, 2014

The New Normal...

Since when did accepting dysfunction become the new normal?  When did running ourselves ragged and feeling guilty about taking breaks become acceptable? When did it become okay to not accept responsibility for your actions, by just simply calling it a mistake?

I'm a news junkie and can pretty much watch CNN all day long, but recently I've strayed away from my favorite past time.  It's like we've accepted dysfunction as the new normal and just make excuses for why it is okay.  No one seems to want to question morals, ethics or even test the validity of statements being made.  Just accept that times are changing and move on!  

We have less time to build substantive relationships because we are so busy living life and then wonder why we have so many broken families.  The new normal makes it okay to spend less time with your children and still be an outstanding parent because they have on the latest pair of J's, the new xbox and the iPhone 6 by the age of 10.  The new normal says it's okay to be rude and disrespectful because this is just that 'new' generation.  The new normal says give me what I want without having to work hard for it.  But along with this new normal comes new consequences - sickness, disease and death are knocking at our doors earlier and earlier.   The ability to hold a simple, yet effective conversation is diminishing as we evolve into 'text junkies!'  Our children are falling further behind educationally and being raised by technology, but we call it progress. 

Don't fall victim to this new normal.  

Sunday, May 18, 2014

Thought For The Day....

Proverbs 10:22...The blessing of the Lord, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it!          

Monday, April 7, 2014

Receive Goodness Freely...

I'm on the precipice of something great and if I'm not careful, I'll talk myself out of it.  I have to remind myself of God's promises.  I think sometimes we are so accustomed to receiving the short end of the stick, until when the blessings begin to flow - we become anxious.

We must learn to receive God's goodness freely; especially when you know you're living right before The Lord!

Proverbs 10:22 (NIV)...The blessing of the LORD brings wealth, without painful toil for it.
Deuteronomy 30:15-16 (NIV)... See, I set before you today life and prosperity, death and destruction. For I command you today to love the LORD your God, to walk in obedience to him, and to keep his commands, decrees and laws; then you will live and increase, and the LORD your God will bless you in the land you are entering to possess.
2 Corinthians 2:20 (MSG)... Whatever God has promised gets stamped with the Yes of Jesus.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Follow the Leader….

As kids, we played a game called Follow the Leader and whatever the leader did, we did.  If the leader ran around in a circle, we ran around in a circle; if the leader stood on one leg in a corner, we stood on one leg in a corner; if the leader jumped off the highest limb in the tree, we jumped off the highest limb in the tree, and so on….

As we grew older, some of us realized that following the leader wasn’t always right the thing to do.  That didn’t mean that what the leader did was wrong; it just wasn’t the path that we were to travel.   We began to see more clearly that everything the leader did didn’t make sense as to what our lives called for.  The leader symbolically can represent friends, trends, family, etc.  As I rode into work this morning, I was listening to a message by T.D. Jakes and he said that because we don’t truly know who we are and recognize our own value that we begin to define our worth by dressing in certain designer clothing and following suit with whatever comes, because that is a sign of status.  BUT – who are you?

As kids playing follow the leader, we obtained the same outcome as the leader, unless we weren’t strong enough to accomplish some of the same feats or if we did accomplish that feat, we may not have been strong enough to handle the consequences of the actions.  Well, it’s the same way if you play follow the leader as an adult.  You may not be able to stomach what I can stomach and you not be able to handle the consequences (good or bad) by following my actions.

While it is okay to have a degree of like mindedness and to associate with people who hold the same values, morals, work ethics, etc. as you do – you do not have to do exactly what they do.  Hear God for yourself; do what is best for you; live the life that God has designed specifically for you.

“We must be able to trust God’s choices for our lives.”
– Michelle McKinney Hammond


Thursday, March 13, 2014

Thought For The Day...

Some people will always throw stones in your path.

It depends on you what you make with them.

                Wall or Bridge?

Remember you are the architect of your life.

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Thought Provoking

What preparations are you making for your expectations?!
SoSerene

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

The Cost of Inspiration…

Believe it or not, there is a cost associated with being an inspiration to others.  I sent the following thought to my staff today:
 
"Let your life mean something. Become an inspiration to others so that they may try to do more and to become more than they are today."
~Thomas D. Willhite
 
When you inspire people, you influence them; this may be in their way of thinking or in their behavior and that is a great responsibility.  When you talk about being an inspiration to others, there comes a degree of transparency regarding areas where you may have failed or did not make the best decisions or where you may not have exhibited the best behavior.  Are you willing to share that kind of information?  Are you willing to open yourself up to possibly being rejected and scrutinized by others?  Count up the cost!
 
When we as Christians look for inspiration, ultimately we look to the Bible for scriptures on how to handle and resolve situations in life.  Sometimes being an inspiration means denying yourself the opportunity to be irresponsible and to make rash decisions because you know there are eyes on you.  Being an inspiration as a Christian is being a representation of Christ!  Are you representing Him well?! 
Matthew 5:16…“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”
Titus 2:7 (NLT)…“And you yourself must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching.”
Matthew 16:24-25…Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.  For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it. 
Count up the cost and be honest with yourself!  I have found that in being an inspiration to others, I have become a better person.

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Encouragement Sharing

Today I was reading through some old e-mails and this was just a snippet of encouragement that was passed along to me, that I'd now like to pass on to you...
I remind myself that God's favor is on my life, and that when I am promoted, He is glorified.  I simultaneously remind myself that when I keep Him tucked away, He gets little or minimum exposure in my life.  The higher I rise, the louder I testify of His awesome power. 
I've come to finally understand that God has properly prepared me for everything that I will face, good or bad; and I cling to that.  Jeremiah 29:11 says "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." 
Be blessed and walk in God's peace my friends...

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Thought For The Day...

"A valuable woman will always reinvent herself!"
Shanel Cooper-Sykes

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Walls That I’ve Built…

These walls that I’ve built must come down!  I have spent years building these walls and making sure to keep the intruders out, but now that my construction is almost complete, I looked around and realized that I have closed myself in.  “Hello…”  “Is anyone there on the other side, can you hear me?”  “I’m all alone in here and it’s starting to not feel so good…”  And all this time I thought I was protecting myself.  If I don’t allow you to get too close to me, then you can’t hurt me.  I’ve isolated myself so much so and haven’t communicated with anyone freely in so long until my social skills are inept.  I don’t mean to push you away; it’s just that I’m afraid.  I’m afraid of being let down and disappointed.  I’m afraid that you’ll try to take what I have.  I’m afraid that you’re trying to befriend me for all the wrong reasons.

Ugh!  I’ve got to find a way to tear down these walls that I’ve built because it’s getting dark in here and not much light can come in.  This can’t be how I was meant to live and all I want is to be loved for real.  “But Oh Lord – I’ve worked so hard to keep everyone else out, that I’ve managed to shut you out too!”

God, please give me the strength to tear down these walls the same way that I put them up – one brick at a time.

- SoSerene

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Glimpse of My Future


Today I caught a glimpse of my future and you were not a part of it. I was pleasantly surprised when I saw myself.  I was actually smiling and it was for real! I was confident and positive; it was not pretend. Today I caught a glimpse of my future and I got so excited that I had to catch myself, because I wanted to leap right into it.

My future is bright!  My future is filled with joy and laughter!  My future is free from chaos, worry and defeat.  Today I caught a glimpse of my future and you were not a part of it.  You feelings of fear, regret, sadness, depression and uncertainty – there was not a single hint of your presence.  I had high self-esteem, I spoke with boldness, and I demanded respect. I was walking with my head held high and my shoulders back. I could actually hear myself saying, “I am Royalty and the Daughter of a King, I deserve the best and I refuse to settle for less.” And you know what – for once I actually believed what I was saying, I mean I wasn’t trying to convince myself. I could feel my heart beating, but it wasn’t due to anxiety and stress, it was a feeling that I could hardly explain, except it felt like sunshine on the inside; it was almost an uncontainable excitement.  You ever passed a field of sunflowers and without even knowing you were doing it – you were smiling?  Yeah – it was just like that.

Today I caught a glimpse of my future – haha and I almost didn’t even recognize myself; I had to turn around and look again.  Girl you look good and you wear the future well!

Today I caught a glimpse of my future, and I am so excited about reaching it, that I’ve stopped looking behind.

-SoSerene

Monday, February 3, 2014

The Right Thing Hurts

What do you do when the right thing hurts? 

There are times in life when you know you're doing right, yet in still the situation hurts so bad. When it's hard to leave, even harder to stay and hardest not to just quit...let me assure you that it is okay to cry; it is okay to say that it hurts; it is okay to have a moment. It's not okay, however, to stay in that funk. We are humans and God gave us emotions to express them; not to be controlled by them. 

We all have a cross to bear and based upon perceptions, you may feel that your cross is heavier than mine - but be careful to not ever minimize the trials of another. 

II Corinthians 12:9-10 
But he said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

Life happens to us all, but we have to be careful and not allow the affairs of life to consume us. 

Be blessed...

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Put Your Mind To It...

"The person who says it cannot be done, should not interrupt the person doing it."
- Chinese Proverb

Derrick Coleman, who was diagnosed with an incurable genetic hearing impairment when he was three, had been told his whole life that he should give up on his dream of playing football. Today he is the first legally deaf offensive player in NFL history. In his inspiring new ad, he reveals how, against all odds, he achieved his lifelong goal of playing in the NFL.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2014/01/15/derrick-coleman-ad-duracell-commercial-video/

Monday, January 13, 2014

Diva Confession

I will value myself, my heart, my mind and my body.  I will not discount my love or give away my pearls to those who are not discerning of their worth.
- Michelle McKinney Hammond

Saturday, January 11, 2014

You're Worth the Work...

"Know your worth. This is in relationships, friendships, careers, and more. God has made you for greatness. Nothing less!!" - Lisi P. 

After I read this quote, it sparked something in me.  

People work for what they want because they find value in it.  You may have heard the saying that -anything in life worth having is worth working for, and that means you.  

Ladies - stop settling!  If he wants you, he'll work to win your heart and he'll continue to work to preserve the relationship.  

Thursday, January 2, 2014

When It’s Over, It’s Over…

What are you trying to drag into the New Year that was over last year?  There are some situations/relationships that have died and we are doing everything in our power to keep them alive.  We are fasting and praying, naming and proclaiming, jumping and shouting, but it is over.  In this passage of scripture we find that David had a child with the wife of another man and as much as he prayed and sought the Lord for the child to live, he still died.  However, the manner in which David handled the loss was astounding to some onlookers.  He jumped up quickly, pulled himself together and moved on.

Why do we have such a difficult time with moving on?  Don’t allow your emotions to be an enemy against your future; know when it’s time to let some things go and move on.

When it’s over, it’s over!  If you continue to read on regarding this story, you’ll find that as a result of moving on, David and Bathsheba bore a son named Solomon, who some regard as the wisest man ever.  From that lineage we find our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  So what if David had allowed that to overtake him and what if he had refused to move on? 

Something in your now is waiting on you to let go of something in your past!

2 Samuel 12: 15 -23
And the Lord struck the child that Uriah’s wife bore to David, and it became ill. David therefore pleaded with God for the child, and David fasted and went in and lay all night on the ground. So the elders of his house arose and went to him, to raise him up from the ground. But he would not, nor did he eat food with them. Then on the seventh day it came to pass that the child died. And the servants of David were afraid to tell him that the child was dead. For they said, “Indeed, while the child was alive, we spoke to him, and he would not heed our voice. How can we tell him that the child is dead? He may do some harm!”
 When David saw that his servants were whispering, David perceived that the child was dead. Therefore David said to his servants, “Is the child dead?”

And they said, “He is dead.”

So David arose from the ground, washed and anointed himself, and changed his clothes; and he went into the house of the Lord and worshiped. Then he went to his own house; and when he requested, they set food before him, and he ate. Then his servants said to him, “What is this that you have done? You fasted and wept for the child while he was alive, but when the child died, you arose and ate food.” And he said, “While the child was alive, I fasted and wept; for I said, ‘Who can tell whether theLord will be gracious to me, that the child may live?’ But now he is dead; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me.”

And he said, “While the child was alive, I fasted and wept; for I said, ‘Who can tell whether the Lord will be gracious to me, that the child may live?’ But now he is dead; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me.”

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Pursuit of Excellence...

Happy New Year and Welcome 2014!!!!

My text to my friends read, "Doing it BIG in 2014!" In return a message I received stated, "May The LORD make 'everything' NEW!"  You either go all out this year or go home; no time for sitting on the sidelines.  Like Will Smith in the Pursuit of Happyness, I'm dedicated to the Pursuit of Excellence this year.  If at first I don't succeed, I'll try try again until I achieve and excel at my God inspired goals and dreams.  God has trusted me to live the absolute best life possible in honor to Him and that's what I intend to do.  My life will be my message and I won't be comfortable with status quo... Time to lever up!


When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me.'

- Erma Bombeck