Now Is Not The Time...

Now is not the time to give up on the blessings that you've been waiting on God to deliver.  Now is not the time to grow weary in well doing. Now is not the time to allow your faith to fail. Now is not the time to doubt and give up on God.

2013 has been a very trying year for many of us, but now is not the time. The same God that was with you then is with you now. 

Isaiah 40:29-31

He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.

Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:

But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Numbers 23:19
God is not a man, that he should lie; neither the son of man, that he should repent: hath he said, and shall he not do it? or hath he spoken, and shall he not make it good?

There is a song called, "God is Not Through Blessing You" by the GMWA Mass Choir. A portion of the lyrics is as follows:

But the devil is a liar and a deciever too, my God is not through blessing you. 
God is not through blessing you, whatever whatever the problem, my God is able to do;
my God is not through blessing you. 

Keep the faith my friends for God has a plan in store especially for you.  I hope this song ministers to your heart as it did mine. 

What's The Message? Part II

Yesterday we talked about the message that we send, through the lives we live, and I wanted to continue with that topic today.

In the book of Ruth, we see that because of Ruth's commitment, loyalty, love, integrity and devotion to Naomi that she was noticed by a prominent person and received favor.  Ruth displayed the characteristics that many of us would desire anyone to possess that is connected to us.  Her life was her message and as a result, she was selected over many for a prestigious role - married to Boaz.  He said to her "for all the city of my people doth know that thou art a virtuous woman."  Her actions far exceeded any words that she could have spoken.

Women often say they are waiting on their Boaz to come, but if he did come, would he find the life that you are living worthy of the life he is willing to offer you?  Yes - there are still some really good men in the world!

To continue with the discussion, for me this passage of scripture transcended the realm of romantic relationships, but carried over into many other facets in life.  On the job - who is watching us? In our neighborhood - who is watching us?  In our churches - who is watching us?

What messages are you sending that would cause someone to change your entire status for the better?

What's The Message?

"My life is my message."

- Mahatma Gandhi

I love quotes and at times they help me remain accountable for my actions.  I use quotes and thoughts for the day as a source of motivation and encouragement for others.  This particular quote has stuck with me for a few years now and this morning it was on my mind. 

At the end of every year, many of us take the time to reflect on what we have or have not accomplished and then we formulate a plan of action for the upcoming year.  However, when taking that time of reflection, let's think about the message we sent, based on the lives we have lived. 

“Your actions speak so loudly, I can not hear what you are saying.”

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

This upcoming year, don't just simply write down a resolution because it's the norm; be the words on the page! 

What Really Matters?

The opportunity to take time away and relax doesn't come as often as we'd like in the lives that we've turned into rat races. Always on the go and it seems that nothing is ever good enough. We run ourselves into the ground and call it success.  When we do sit down to rest and catch our breath, we call it being unproductive.  Somewhere along the way we've got it twisted!  We don't want to wait at a red light; we don't to wait for food to cook in the oven; we don't want to wait for a phone call, so we text; we don't want to wait for God to bring us what He wants us to have, so we force situations that don't fit.  

Our lives have become complicated and we are discontented to the fault of no one but ourselves.  We are trying to fit into a mold that God never intended.  We spend more money than we make to impress people who don't care, to fit into an imitation of life.  What really matters?

What really matters at the end of the day when you're all alone?  What really matters when the chatter dies and it's quiet?  What really matters when sickness comes and life is fleeting?  What really matters when no one will pick up the phone to talk or you didn't get invited out?

What is really important?  We talk a good talk, but what really matters to you?

http://thoughtcatalog.com/baihley-grandison/2013/12/you-dont-have-to-do-everything-all-at-once/

You Can't Come...

Why do we insist on trying to take people with us, even if it's to our own detriment?  We've tried it before and it didn't work, but yet we find ourselves doing it again.  The people that we are insisting on dragging into our future will eventually deplete us of our resources, drain our strength and decrease our motivation to excel.  However, for the sake of companionship, we accept things we know we shouldn't, make excuses for their behavior and try to make up for their shortcomings.  At the end of the day we are left feeling used, abused and confused.

Matthew 25 - this is the story in the Bible about the Ten Virgins (5 wise and 5 foolish).  The five wise virgins made the necessary preparations for their anticipation of the bridegroom, but the five foolish were not prepared.  When the resources of the foolish ran out, they asked that the five wise give to them.  Being wise, they answered correctly by saying no and for the foolish to go and seek out what they needed.  While gone to get what was needed the bridegroom came and it was too late for the foolish to go in.  What if the wise virgins had shared their resources?  They would have missed out on this opportunity as well.

What are we missing out on because we refuse to say no; because we refuse to leave the wrong people behind and just move on?  What is God not allowing to come into our lives because He knows that those wrong connections will consume it and misuse it?

It's time to step back and take an honest look at our lives and the people who occupy our time.  It's time to stand up and say, "no you can't come!"

Thought for the day...

"Lord help us not to complain about things we aren't willing to work on changing."
- Joyce Meyer

Too Much of Me...

This past week was a very trying week and I don't think a day went by where I didn't allow my emotions to control my actions.  I failed the test!  I could feel the knot in my stomach and the heat rising up from my neck to my ears, which ultimately changed my facial expression.  BUT, I'm supposed to be a representation of Christ!  Yes, I'm human and we all have our days, but there are simply no excuses...

Our lives are a witness to others who may or may not know Christ and many times they look to us to see how we behave and react in stressful times.  I realized that I still have too much of me in me and my flesh needs to die daily so that God can truly rule my life. 

The job of the enemy is to frustrate us so that we don't pray; so that we don't spend time with God; so that we don't reach out to help others because we are so consumed with our own affairs; so that we lose our witness.  He comes to steal, kill and to destroy our Joy in the Lord.

Romans 12:1 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

2 Corinthians 4:8 - We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;

John 10:10 -The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

It is my responsibility as it is yours to recognize when the flesh is beginning to rise up in us and to quickly seek God to help us keep our cool.  God is in control and He will not leave us nor forsake us.  He knows the thoughts that He thinks towards us and He has a plan for our future.  As long as we keep this in mind, we'll be alright!

Thouht for the day...

"Stop leasing out space in your mind to the opinions of others."
- Marvin Jackson

It'll Be Okay...

I see in you what you don’t see, so never underestimate yourself.

You are a blessing to people that you come in contact with and you have helped to change so many people’s lives in a positive way.  Your smile is infectious and you have a heart of gold; your hugs are sincere and your words are full of wisdom. People look to you for strength, encouragement and kindness, so do not fail them.  Things might not be perfect in your life and they may not be going the way you thought they would go, but you are doing a whole lot better than many others.  So keep the complaints to a minimum and the praises at an all-time high.  There are so many people who are suffering all over the world, but God has rested His hands of Grace and Mercy on you and He watches over you day and night.  You were fearfully and wonderfully made and the path that your life will take has been specifically carved out just for your feed to tread. 

So hold your head up high, put a smile on your face, keep a song in your heart and march to the beat of your own drums.  You are a shining star!

I Love Me...

I am who I am; I love me; I love the woman that God has created me to be.  To envy another is to insult my Creator. 

 

I am different; I am unique.  God specially handcrafted me, as a porcelain doll that He has sat upon His shelf.  A dimple here, a scar there, my personality, the way that I walk, the way that I talk, the way that I think, my characteristics, my mannerisms and my moods are all what make me different.  I never wish to be another.  I am fearfully and wonderfully made.  I am special in God's eyes.  I love the way that I look, I love my shape, I love the color of my skin, I love the texture of my hair, I love the color of my eyes, I love the size of my feet.  God made me in His image.  I am a daughter of Zion, I am a woman of God.  I love me!

 

I am powerful, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, I am an over comer, I am inspiring, I am beautiful!

 

Embrace who are; fall in love with yourself over and over again.  Relish in the fact that God took the time to design every intricate detail of who you are; He left nothing out.  He never meant for you to be like anyone else. 

 

I love me - do you love you?

Seek God!!!

2 Chronicles 26:5....and as long as he sought the Lord, God made him to prosper.

Exodus 33:14....The Lord replied, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”

Matthew 11:28...Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Don't Hurt Yourself

People come into our lives and people go; some give and some take; some bless and some hurt; some help and some hinder.  Throughout all that you may endure in life in your interactions with others - be careful that you don't hurt yourself.
 
We suffer enough damage just by being human and reaching out to others who may not appreciate our genuine acts of kindness, but that's the risk we take.  Everyone won't appreciate you, everyone won't love you back, everyone won't celebrate you, everyone won't congratulate you, everyone won't give back to you  - that's life!
 
Don't hurt yourself by becoming bitter; don't hurt yourself by becoming unforgiving; don't hurt yourself by not giving; don't hurt yourself by hardening your heart.  As I stated to a friend recently, "when you give - it doesn't always come back from that specific source, but God will always take care of you!" 

Jeremiah 17:10 - I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.

If you keep your heart right towards God - HE WILL bless you!  Don't allow the insensitivity of others to cause you to miss the blessings that God has already prepared for you to receive. 

Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

God has plans to bless you; He wants to bless you!  God is watching how you respond.  Everyone has their just reward, so remember that God is watching you!  Be careful not to hurt yourself and jeopardize what's in store for you.   

Romans 2:6 - God "will repay each person according to what they have done."

Check Yourself!

The month has been one of revealing and one of gratitude.  I have the opportunity to interact with many different people and some of them feel comfortable sharing their testimonies and/or current situations with me.  After listening to one today and pondering on the others that I’ve heard, it left me with the question to pose to myself of, “Is it really that bad?”  Meaning – are the things that I complain, gripe, whine and moan about really that bad?  Or am I taking for granted that God has blessed me with an awesome opportunity to live?!  I need to check myself!

There is a quote that I think on often and it says, “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”

Here I am complaining that my boss didn’t pat me on the back for a job well done, when I receive an e-mail from a business associate praising God for restoring her hearing - when the prognosis was deafness.  Here I am complaining about processes not being followed at work - when I was approached by a colleague stating that she was about to undergo a double mastectomy.  And then again, I received a message from a different co-worker rejoicing on how she returned to the doctor to go over her test results and the cancer that she had battled with is gone!  And again, two phone calls this week of people close to me who’ve suffered sudden death in their families.

How can I sit here and continue to belittle that Great God that I serve by complaining over things that have no merit?!  The next time you feel the urge to gripe – CHECK YOURSELF! 

Looking For a Reason...

Last night I was watching another one of those extreme weight loss shows and the young lady was over 400 pounds and climbing.  She experienced the tragic loss of her mother at a very young age and it tormented her to the point of turning to food as a source of comfort.  Through the years, she used the passing of her mother as her reasoning for continuing to over eat and for continuing to gain weight – even if it was to her own detriment.  As I sat there watching and listening to her story, I couldn’t help but think about all the reasons we hold on to in order to remain the way we are; all the reasons we hold on to in order for us not to change.  Her reason was food, but what’s yours?

I was able to relate this this lady’s story because I had two siblings diagnosed within months of each other with cancer, and they both passed away as a result of their illness.  Food, which became my source of comfort, turned toxic for me.  As my weight spiraled out of control, my health, my esteem and my outlook on life was bleak.   It wasn’t until I “made the choice” to regain control that things began to change.

People suffer all kinds of unfortunate events in their lives, but those events don’t have to be a reason for you not to empower yourself to have a better life.  That better life includes happiness, success, health, wealth and prosperity. 

You have a choice, so you can stop looking for a reason to not live your life to its fullest potential.  Let go of the hurt, let go of the fear, let go of the regret, let go of the unforgiveness, let go of the past and let go of the people in your life who are subtracting from you versus adding to you.

If you are going to look for a reason today – look for a reason to live your best life yet!

Superficial Constraints

So now that I'm in my mid 30's and pressing on, I see that my list of "must haves" in a man have changed a bit.  A guy friend asked me the other day what my top 5 were and here is where I landed.  Now if you had asked me the same question a few years ago - the answers would have included a degree, salary comparable to mine, a homeowner, 6'4-/250 lbs, etc. I do understand that with time comes maturity.  The expectation of a solid, well-rounded, good person supersedes the materialistic constraints that I was placing on my future mate and could possibly be why I'm still single.  I needed to grow up!

What I was failing to realize was that if the man I long for possessed the attributes below, the other things on the list would come together, as they should.  So the more I think on it, the more I realize that I've probably passed him many times over or didn't give him a chance because I was blinded by unnecessary necessities.

Superficial constraints.  Anyone can have a house; anyone can have a car; anyone can make a 6 figure salary; anyone can get a body like Angela Bassett.  Anyone who exerts enough time, effort and energy can have all the material things to define our societal ideas of success, but does that make them a good person?  

So you may have reached a level of admirable achievements, but are you a good person? Do you have integrity; do you talk too much; can you be trusted; are you the same person behind closed doors; do you have a close, intimate relationship with God as you portray?

Top 5 Must Haves

1. Committed relationship to God
2. Integrity (honest, trustworthy and true to who they are)
3. Ability to communicate vs. shutting down
4. Intrinsically motivated (a hustler/go getter/driven)
5. Positive/optimistic/glass half full

Think about it - are superficial constraints impacting your ability to build good relationships?  Of course you need to exercise common sense with associating with anyone, but to thine own self be true about the relationships you've dismissed.  

I Can't, But HE Can...

Isaiah 49:13 – 16…Shout for joy, you heavens;rejoice, you earth; burst into song, you mountains!For the Lord comforts his people and will have compassion on his afflicted ones. But Zion said, “TheLord has forsaken me, the Lord has forgotten me.”“Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands; your walls are ever before me.

Lord I’m tired; I’m frustrated; I’m stressed; I’m afraid; I’m lonely; I’m sad; I’m angry; I’m lost; I can’t do this!

There are many of us who are experiencing many of these feelings and some may even believe that God has forgotten all about you.  However, be reminded of His words today.  God said that He will not forget us!  Trying times are upon us and our faith is being stretched to the max.  In either direction that we turn, there is something going on; however, the Word reminds us to fix your gaze directly before us (Proverbs 4:25).  In this season of life, it’s imperative that we speak life, and that life comes through the Word of God, so get in His presence and stay there.  

It’s easy to complain and call it expressing, but God’s Word is forever true.  We serve a God who has proven Himself time and time again.  He’s made a way for us over and over again, so just because this situation is taking longer to overcome than the last, is no reason to discount His ability now.  You may feel as though you can’t take it another minute, but HE can!

II Corinthians 12:9 – 10…But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 

James 1:2 – 4…Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 

I Thessalonians 5:16 -18…Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 

I Peter 4:12 – 13…Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.

God Sent A Man ...

Please be encouraged by this passage from a book called, "God Sent a Man" by Carlyle B. Haynes....

"There is no state or condition into which men or devils may precipitate us that takes us beyond the reach of our heavenly Father. Do not allow any combination of circumstances, no matter how complicated and seemingly impossible, to cause you to believe that God has lost His ability to help you, to bring you deliverance, to change your hopeless captivity into glorious victory. When God's time has come He can make every difficulty vanish. He can cause every barrier to disappear. Nothing, literally nothing, can stand in the way of the carrying out of His purpose, the fulfillment of His will. And God's intervention to completely change the circumstances of a life can come instantly.

It does not matter that you see no way out from a completely hopeless condition. God can see what you cannot see. You may be in, or be brought into, great trials that present what seems to be insurmountable difficulties. They may be caused by the loss of some loved one, by some embarrassing circumstances, or by some other calamitous events. You may come to think your situation is hopeless, and be unable to perceive any way of escape.

If and when such a time comes to you, do not lose your confidence in the God with whom nothing is impossible, even though every human help has failed you. Never is His arm shortened that it cannot save. Never is His ear heavy so that it cannot hear. Your extremity may easily be His opportunity. He is never at a loss for means by which to affect His Gracious purposes."

Pushing or Pulling

Are you pushing or pulling me?  A friend and I exchanged emails the other day and I told her that "crucial conversations" are necessary at times.   We need to evaluate whether those around us, associated with us or connected to us are pushing us into God's presence or pulling us away from Him!  How do you feel when that person enters your presence?  How do you feel when they leave?  Has your faith increased or decreased?  Did they encourage you or discourage you?

My Pastor said something that stuck with me and it was that you don't know true pain till you realize that your spirit, your own attitude caused you to miss out on the future that God intended for you.  There is no one else to blame - just you!  WOW!! Just because a person isn't outright wrong in everything that they do and say doesn't mean that the subtle things that they do and say aren't influencing you and at the end of the day - you're the one accountable.

"A little yeast works through the whole batch of dough." Galatians 5:9 

Today - make a choice because what you allow will continue.  Make a choice to disassociate yourself from negativity, doubt, depression, self-pity, nay sayers, bad behaviors, unrighteousness. 

"Do not be misled: "Bad company corrupts good character." I Corinthians 15:33

 

It's okay to let others know when you disagree with them and its okay to walk away. Just because you've known that person for years and "that's just the way they are.." isn't an excuse for you to continue to allow them to pull on you.  Ask yourself - why is it so hard for me to walk away?  Could there be something in me that is in agreement with them?  Honest self examination!!!

So, are you being pushed in the right direction or pulled in the wrong one?

"Sin will take you farther than you intend to go, keep you longer than you want to stay and cost you more than you want to pay." (Thanks LJM)

Who Knows?

Who knows that you’re a Christian, based on your actions and not from you telling them?  Who knows that you care, based on your actions and not you telling them? 

Is your life your message?  Can someone spot you in the group and see the difference in you or do you just blend in?

Matthew 5:13 – 16… “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.  In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

Many times we go in and out of the day without being cognizant of the fact that we are here for a distinct purpose – and that purpose is to be a light that shines in the midst of darkness.  That purpose is to live differently so that others come to know the God that we serve.  I often times here people say that I don’t know what my purpose is yet or I need to begin to walk in my purpose.  HELLO???  Our purpose is very clear – we are to live in honor to God in such a way that others are drawn to Him.  Plain and simple!  He has given us different gifts and talents, but the purpose is the same.

So today, Who Knows about you? Are you letting your light shine?

IF and WHEN...

Stuck between IF and WHEN; wanting to believe that God is going to bring you out (WHEN), but not sure IF it’s really going to happen.  Wanting to be strong and have faith in God and praying that He removes any trace of doubt.  Lord, I believe, but please help my unbelief.

We’ve all struggled with these moments, periods of time, and situations in life where we just feel in limbo about the things that are occurring all around us.  Our doctrine teaches us to be strong and trust God, but the circumstances mounting against us, at times create a since of fear and panic, which can ultimately lead to a lack of trust - so we begin to say IF.

Today I’d like to encourage us all to continue to trust our Creator; our Heavenly Father who knows what’s best for us.  There is a song that I like to sing when I feel down and the lyrics are “Sight beyond what I see, You know what’s best for me, so prepare my mind and prepare my heart for whatever comes, I’ll be ready….”  Encourage yourself today through His word and through prayer. 

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)…Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.

Psalms 46:10 (NIV)… He says, “Be still, and know that I am God…

Jeremiah 29:11…For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

I Thessalonians 5:17…Pray without ceasing.

Deuteronomy 31:6…Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Beauty Behind Ugly

So on my vacation, we've driven through some really rough looking parts of town.  To me they are just ugly.  Nonetheless, once we got through the rough spots, there was great beauty behind the ugly.  I've seen some of the most incredibly beautiful, breath-taking beaches and mountains and people. 

So what do I take away from this all?  Not to discount anyone or anything upon first appearance.

This is what God does to all of us.  He looks beyond our ugly to see the beauty underneath.  Once we allow the Lord to become the head of our lives and we submit to Him in complete surrender to His will - our true beauty begins to shine through. 

There's beauty behind all of our ugly.

First Love

This year I have been so blessed to travel for my summer vacation and experience things that most people would only dream of experiencing.  I have been fortunate enough to see some of the great and marvelous wonders that God has created, and I couldn't have imagined any of it, if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes. 

While here, I've been having some really good conversations with God.  I'm reading a book called "Sincerely, Jesus" and it's thought provoking.  The chapter that I'm reading now is discussing leaving your first love, who is Jesus.  As I sat there next to the beach, listening to the sound of the waves and looking up at the mountains, I began to think of the ways in which I have drifted away from my first love and how to reconnect. 

I can travel the entire world 50 times over; I can be the most educated scholar ever; I can have more money in the bank than I could count, but if I leave my first love - none of it matters! 

Think about all the things in your life that you consider to be magnificently awesome - now get it in your mind that without Jesus - it's nothing....

Come back to your first love!

My Happiness – My Choice

I’m a fan of an inspirational writer named Ralph Marston. He wrote a piece called, “Free to be happy” and it hit me so hard.  He was basically saying how we allow others to define what happiness should look like to us - when the choice is ours.

God just blessed me to celebrate another birthday and I am ever so grateful.  However, as the years are coming and going, my requirement for happiness is changing.  While I appreciate the gifts that I received, my heartfelt desire was to spend time with the people that I cherish to my core.  Time – something I can’t get back once it’s spent.   I wanted that quality time to exchange hugs and kisses, smiles and laughter and to say “I love you.”  

When I was younger, happiness to me was stuff.  It was earning a degree and climbing the corporate ladder; it was about chasing a six figure salary and buying a bigger home.  My happiness was based upon what society considered success to look like.  All of those things are great and wonderful accomplishments to anyone who has attained them and to those still reaching for them, but I am at a point in my life where I’m defining what happiness really means to me.  Happiness to me is giving back to those who may be in need; it’s about connecting to people who love me for me and not what I can do for them; it’s about being who I am and not changing to please or meet the expectations of others; and some days happiness is just being content to just be. 

It’s my happiness, so it’s my choice.

Ralph Marston’s article can be found at ….http://greatday.com/motivate/050423.html

Thought For The Day...

We can be so preoccupied with surviving until we miss success.
- T.D. Jakes

Encourage Yourself

With everything going on in the world today, many times we are reaching out in search of some form of encouragement that it’s going to be okay.  However, today I simply say, “encourage yourself.”  As seasoned, mature Christians, times like these have been spoken of for many years – now it’s upon us.  We cannot grow faint or weary in heart because our heavenly Father has long prepared us for the days that are here.  Sometimes we call others and look for them to give us the strength we need to make it that extra mile, and while that’s all well and good, sometimes you have to be able to rely on your own prayers, your own beliefs, the Word that you’ve read in the Bible.  Encourage yourself!  Don’t wait for a good, hot message to get you all emotional to make you jump and shout – preach your own message.  Most times the people you are seeking encouragement from, need to be encouraged themselves.

No, I’m not saying to seclude yourself and not fellowship, but I am saying it’s time for us to practice what we’ve preached all these years and walk in Faith.  Trust God!  Speak Life!  Quote the Word!  Be Not Weary in Well Doing!  Walk by Faith and Not by Sight!  Fight the Good Fight of Faith!

Encourage Yourself!

Reminder

People make time for what they want - DON'T sell yourself short!

Transitions

Five months into the year and 2013 has proven to be a year of continual transition.  Some good and some bad.  It seems like it's one thing after the next with no break in between.  I'm tired!  However, there's no time to quit.  Times like these make you decide whether you're a winner or a loser; whether you're dedicated or disengaged. 

From the sickness of ones close to me to materialistic losses to trials and tribulations on the job - it's been a challenge.  I've learned temperament, I've learned patience, I've learned that there is a deeper level to having integrity, I've learned more and more that I have a choice in how I respond.  I've learned that there are people integral to my continual growth and develolpment and some that I can simply do without!

It's at this time that we grow up for real!

"Those who wish to sing, always find a song."
- Swedish Proverb

Eyes Wide Shut...

So consumed and focused on the obvious, we fail to see the enemy walking through the back door.  The master or deceit is wreaking havoc all around us and while we all run to see what the commotion is all about, we don't leave anyone on post to guard.

I believe that's what's happening to many of us.  We have become so consumed with the obvious issues of life, that we are being caught off guard by the bold attacks of the enemy.  The issues that are knocking us off balance aren't some secret mysterious thing, no - it's right in our faces, but we have our eyes wide shut!

I Peter 5:8...Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour..

 

Matthew 26:41...Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak...

 

 

 

 



Don't Trip

A lot of times I think people falter because they are so concerned with what others around them are doing.  We get so focused on another person's race; what they are doing right or wrong and we spend so much time analyzing them that we neglect our own races.  However, if you keep looking to the left and the right - you're eventually going to trip.  

We can become so consumed in the running patterns of others until we lose sight on the training that we've received.  We may forget how to control our breathing or even how to pace ourselves. We become distracted by others who have fallen behind in the race and also the ones who've gained momentum and have approached or passed us.  At some point in time we may even begin to panic as we feel ourselves losing control.  However, it only takes a moment to regain our composure, pull ourselves together and get back on track.  

It's like this in life... Make it up in your mind to focus on the track laid out before you.  Remember the training that you've received - the Word of God; and as you are fully aware of other runners behind you, alongside of you or even in front of you, don't lose sight of the finish line.  Pace yourself and remember to breath. A prayer life will help you with this.  

Stay on track and don't trip....

My Little, His Lot

Throughout the things that I've encountered in life, one thing has constantly proven true and that's the fact of God taking my little and making it a lot. 

I recall a time when I felt that I could get by in life without paying my tithes. Well how wrong was I proven to be!  I had the same monthly expenses, but for the life of me couldn't take care of my obligations.  As soon a I checked back into reality and began paying them again - my financial situation improved tremendously and has consistently been on an incline ever since.  

Again recently, I was reminded of my little and His lot! As a result of the economy and reform and cut backs - we are being challenged to do more with less.  For a few months at work, I struggled greatly with this notion and in "my mind" couldn't imagine how this would work.  It wasn't until I chose to let go and let God that He worked it out.  He has once again taken my little and made it a lot.  My team and I are accomplishing just as much, if not more with less. 

When we remove out logic from the situation, God will do more with our little than ever imagined.  Try Him today!

I Kings 17 - Widow woman of Zarephath....

Lord Help Me…

There are times in life when even the strongest of us need encouragement, strength, and rejuvenation.  I’m not talking about taking a vacation, a walk on the beach or sitting silently in a corner reading a book, but I mean some serious HELP LORD.  When the trivialness of life seems to bog you down and calm thoughts are fleeting; when you’re tired of being a rock for everyone else and you are searching for someone to be a rock for you; when you want to cry, but the tears won’t fall.  I know it’s those times when God is waiting for us to come to Him, to seek Him to call on Him.  That Rock is Jesus!

As I contemplate a major decision in my own life, I was contacted by someone else who needed a word and those same verses became strength for me.  Please take comfort in the Word of God:

Proverbs 3:5-6…Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;  in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

 

John 14:27…Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Psalm 55:22…Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall.

1 Peter 5:7…Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

Psalm 120:1…I call on the LORD in my distress, and he answers me.

Accountability Partner

Do you have an accountability partner?  Someone to keep you encouraged and motivated; someone to tell you when you're wrong and help guide you to what is right; someone you trust to have your best interest at heart; someone who isn't there to stroke your ego or coddle your self pity, but to tell you the truth....

I remember when I was on my "first' weight loss journey and my health coach was my accountability partner.  While losing the weight was a benefit to me, there was something unnerving about having to do that weekly call and telling her that I'd made a mistake.  However, when I did fess up, she didn't condemn me, but she gave me guidance on how to do better.  I wrote a blog once before about how we sometimes push people away when they give advice, but not everyone is out to harm you.  Of course you must pay enough attention to the signs to know who genuinely cares.

We are not on an island alone, so we all need help from time to time.  We all need someone who thinks differently and sees the situation differently to help us reassess our own reasoning.

"If two men agree on everything, you may be sure that one of them is doing the thinking."

- Lyndon B. Johnson

 

“If we both agree on everything, one of us is not necessary.”

- Unknown

Thouht For The Day

"Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all."
- Anonymous

Psalms 39:1...I said, I will take heed to my ways, that I sin not with my tongue:

Flip The Coin

This morning I read an article, emailed to me by a friend, and the content was related to a pastor whose death was widely discussed because of his "presumed" struggle. And almost a year and a half later - it's still being discussed.

It really got me to thinking this morning. I've read some of the comments that people made about this man and yes - he may have had a bad struggle BUT how many of the men and women of "God" do we sit under and listen to that have struggles?   Sin is sin!!!  I bet if people knew what their pastors were struggling with and if it was made public knowledge they wouldn't be as inclined to be so condemning.  

We as people tend hold imperfect people to perfect standards. 2 Corinthians 12:8-9..."For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me". God knew we'd have struggles so He gave us grace. When that grace runs out - we have to answer to The Lord. Yeah - he had a problem, but how many people did he lead to Christ?! 

Flip the coin from tales to heads and pray for people rather than judge and condemn.

Why Miss it Now?

So again I'm awaken at 4 a.m. for the second day in a row.  Wide awake!  As you may recall, the last time this happened, God was trying to get a message through to me and since this seems to be the best time for Him to have my undivided attention - He takes full advantage of it.  As I rolled over to turn on the lamp and gather my Bible and note pad, I stopped and whispered a quick prayer - "Lord make my understanding keen so that I get the message that you are bringing to me."

The first thing that came to my mind was "calamity."  Now what an odd thing to think on this early, but nonetheless, I obey.  Calamity - a GREAT misfortune or disaster.  So I looked up as many scriptures as I could find that referenced this word and it took me all the way back to Deuteronomy and from there I began to do a cross reference to many other scriptures.  Here is my revelation from all that I just read....

God had performed miracle after miracle for the Children of Israel, act after act, provision after provision - as He has in my life and yours as well; but yet and still they displayed their lack of faith in Him.  As a result they suffered many unnecessary things.  However, the most profound portion of this for me was in Deuteronomy 32:48-52, where God permitted Moses to SEE the promised land, but not ENTER and PARTAKE!  WOW!!!!  After leading these people all this time and pleading with them and praying for them and fighting with them - HE MISSED THE PROMISED LAND.  See back in Numbers chapter 20, Moses displayed, what a writer depicted, {his unbelief and disobedience} towards God.

So the question posed to me that I pose to you is - WHY MISS IT NOW?  Why miss the blessing that you've been pleading for, praying for and fighting for due to unbelief and disobedience?  I now understand why the word calamity was on my mind - it would be a GREAT misfortune  for me to miss out on my promised land.

Deuteronomy 30:19...I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:
 

I Samuel 15:22...And Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams. 

My Smile is Moving Down…

I shared with a friend today that it’s one thing for a smile to be on your face and another thing for the smile to be in your heart.  It’s one thing to hear a word; it’s another thing to receive it.

It’s funny how things will come and there are simple, yet profound messages buried within them.  For the last two weeks, I’ve been stuck on this song by Jennifer Hudson called, “I Am Changing.”  In addition to that, I read a quote by Brad Kloha that said, “You have to make time for the things that you want. If you're not willing to sacrifice and make the time, you don't really want it." 

God is the reason for the smile being in our hearts, so if that’s what we want, we have to be willing to sacrifice our time and get in His presence.  For there is His presence is everything that we need.  It’s there in that alone time that His word will become alive and invigorate us; motivate us; give us passion for life to allow God’s will to become our greatest desires.

My smile is moving down and it feels oh so good….

Lessons Learned

These last few months at work have been very trying - hence the lack of postings.  However, through all of the frustrating days and sleepless night, I've learned many lessons about myself.  I've learned that I didn't have the tolerance that I once thought I had (so I need to pray more); I learned that when pushed to the limits - my ability to perform went to a better level; most importantly I learned that when people discount you - God will raise you up.

The lessons I've learned over the past 4 months are ones that I try to remind myself of daily.  If I keep myself reminded of them, then I must hold myself accountable for maintaining a positive attitude.  I've learned that God did not set me up to fail.

"When your problems are bigger than you, Remember that God is bigger than them."

- Author: Elizabeth Manis

Luke 1:37…For with God nothing shall be impossible.

Thought For The Day....

"Your worst day with God is better than your best day without Him."
- Joyce Meyer

Do Unto Others...

Luke 6:31 (NIV)... "Do to others as you would have them do to you."

Just think of how much more pleasant our world would be to live in if we obeyed this scripture on a daily basis.  Why is this so hard for us to abide by?  Why is making a sacrifice and forsaking the desire to be selfish so difficult?

While this is something that we can carry out in small ways on a daily basis, I have the pleasure of knowing someone who took this verse to another level and how I know she'll be blessed for her obedience.  I'll change names as I give a brief synopsis of the situation.

Sally's mom was very ill and took a turn for the worse.  She had been admitted into the hospital on numerous occasions, but this one was different.  Sally's mom was rapidly deteriorating and it was time to call the family in.  Vicky is Sally's co-worker and associate and since Sally has no sisters, Vicky says "I'll be the sister you've never had to be with you through this difficult time."  As a result, Vicky sacrificed her time and stayed overnight in the hospital with Sally as a source of strength and to be there as needed.  In the wee hours of the morning, Vicky felt an unction to pray and they held hands around the hospital bed and began to pray and sing songs of worship.  After that, Sally's mom's fragile life slipped away.

Think about it....  What if Vicky had decided that she didn't have time for Sally or if she said, 'I'll pray for you and call me if you need anything.'  No, she took it further - she was there.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.